I frequently receive many questions about my work and ACERN and felt it advantageous to share some of these with you.
So initially I will act as a counsellor, and listen to their experiences, non -judgementally and with acceptance of their experiences, whatever they may be. For many this is healing in itself as they will say just to speak openly 'is like a weight off their shoulders.
The above is part of the process, and from their personal history I ask them what it is they feel they most need! for example
- on-going support? such as Counselling
- Connecting with others? - If they require validation of their experiences and need to talk with others then they can come to my monthly support group meeting
- Buddy system - Connecting with other experiencers via email or phone to chat informally!
- Help with coping ie re fear? - I can provide them with coping strategies!
- Information: Again I have information and resources to offer! This way I can assist them to find the help they feel they most need. Therapy - If they want to explore their experience in more depth ie regression, then we set a time aside to do this, regression therapy takes 2-3 hours per session, and through this they can explore an experience more thoroughly.and gain some understanding of it!
In my book Awakening the sub-heading is how Et Contact transforms the individuals life, on every level! It acts as a catalyst for change both physically emotionally psychologically and spiritually! They become multi dimensionally aware, and very psychic! Initially through that transition though they may go through a process of fear, and denial to seeking of information and realisation that this is real for them, then comes the crisis of paradigms when they have to acknowledge that their understanding and programming of reality is limited and they have to embrace a multidimensional reality!
In my book I call this Contact the chrysalis for change! Ultimately they move to a place of integration and acceptance, and learn to live without the conflict and learn and grow with this as part of their expanded reality.
As far as I am aware just in America ie ACCET ( Academy of Clinical Close Encounter Therapists) California.
This is an organization of Professionals ie Psychiatrists, psychologists, social workers, counsellors , nurses, Doctors etc.with over 105 members world wide. I am a clinical member of ACCET and modeled ACERN on it!
PEER (Program for Extraordinary Experience Research) USA, founded by Professor DR John Mack Of Harvard UNiversity also offers information and support.
With openness and honesty, I will tell them to go and read some of the enormous scientific and documented evidence out now in every good bookshop, before they dismiss it! And that the most skeptical of all are those with this experience, as they have to prove to themselves they are not crazy, and for those who work in the field we come a close second as we don't want to lose our credibility either, so as groups we are the most skeptical.
And any question they may come up with we have certainly asked those same questions, and some more! So generally they give us no surprises! And everyone is welcome to struggle with this, we certainly did! Although I will have to say that balanced skepticism is healthy, there is a small percent that even if they saw a UFO on their front lawn they would say it was a fire engine
To be honest I don't think anyone who has come to me up to date has made it up! And why would they what have they got to gain, except ridicule and disbelief from most people, or the diagnoses of mental illness.
For many people coming to me it takes a huge effort and they are often very nervous, many would rather believe they are crazy than believe this. But to answer how to I know? Well so many have the same indicators of the experience, unexplained marks and scars on their body, they have several members of the same family with similar experiences, missing time episodes, and some are traumatised, and fearful! Many are very emotional about it, and continually question their sanity.
My personal philosophy is "We don't know what we don't know!" Socrates is quoted as saying"Wisdom is knowing how little we know" Well I have learnt that science has not got all the answers to explaining what reality is, and certainly I have read enough to know that human beings have a enormous range of experience that doesn't fit the 'third dimensional reality box! Ie Remote viewing, out of body experiences, clairvoyance, telepathy etc none of this scientifically quantifiable yet! So just because we cannot quantify this does it mean its not real, we cannot quantify or prove LOVE is real, but no one denies that exists! Therefore I say that this whole experience is certainly real in both reality mindsets.
In regards the reasons for Contact, well I think that there are probably a multitude of them as there are many different beings that are seen, and may have many different agenda's (See Expressions OF ET Contact. a visual Blueprint? A video from ACERN that show drawings of the beings). But, what their ultimate agenda is no-one can say! But for those who try and say they are coming to take over the planet, I think they suffer from a limited mindset and paranoia, as the truth is that if these beings chose to, they could have done that centuries ago, and haven't so why now?they have the kind of technology that is so in advance of ours they could do whatever they wanted and what would be the purpose of accelerating human abilities, increasing psi abilities, healing and multi awareness, etc.if their ultimate purpose is to destroy us, to me that's illogical.
When I got my first client, I had already read about Abduction through Dr John Mack Book "Abduction" and as he was a psychiatrist and the book was very grounded, I felt this experience was very credible. I also had read Whitley Striebers Book Communion. I am a very eclectic reader, so I was at least partially informed of this, and open minded. When I got my first client and he was so credible it made it even more tangible for me, as I saw how real it was for him and his family, and how it impacted on their lives. But, at that time I still believed this was a very unusual and 'rare' occurrence! But from that time, other people contacted me and said similar things, so after getting several people to see me and all clearly looking for support I was considering running a support network when I was approached by the ASPR ( Australasian Society for Psychical Research) UFORUM group ( of which I was a member) and asked if I would join up with a social worker (who was also an experiencer) and form a support group.
We did this and advertised in an alternative magazine and 12 individuals turned up. That was the beginning. Since then word has got out over the years, and after media, newspaper articles, radio, TV etc, and lectures here. Nationally and overseas ACERN is becoming well known as an Australian resource, and I have referrals from ACCET in America for example. But I decided to give it the name ACERN and make it more credible within the therapeutic community. Through the numbers that reached me finally it crept up from 50 to 100 until it was several hundreds and now after 7 years over 700 have been in contact with me. What people need to understand is that for everyone who opens up to their Contact experience, they realise that it is not just them having it in their family, as its intergenerational and siblings, parents and their own children may be having it too, so for every one ..maybe 5 others may be involved.